Dhammapada 61
If, as you go, you find no companion better than or equal to yourself, commit firmly to going alone
If, as you go, you find no companion better than or equal to yourself, commit firmly to going alone. There is no companionship with a fool.
Translated from the Pāli by Banya
Pāli
Carañce nādhigaccheyya,
Seyyaṁ sadisamattano;
Ekacariyaṁ daḷhaṁ kayirā,
Natthi bāle sahāyatā.
In plain words
Companionship is not helpful merely because someone is present. If you cannot find someone who is your equal or better in the relevant qualities, the verse favors walking alone over following foolish conduct.
Key words
- bāla
- fool — A blunt description of poor understanding and conduct, not lack of schooling.
The story behind the verse
The rebellious pupil
In the commentary, Kassapa had a pupil who carried out his duties and another who shirked them. The shirking pupil tried to take credit for work done by the other, and he obtained food by falsely claiming the elder had sent him. He ate that food himself, and when Kassapa discovered the deception, he rebuked the pupil. The pupil retaliated by setting fire to Kassapa’s hut, and the Buddha heard the report and taught the value of walking alone rather than keeping foolish company.
Retold by Banya from the traditional commentary, after E. W. Burlingame, Buddhist Legends (1921).
To reflect on
What qualities make company worth choosing for you?
Try it today
Decline one small invitation to join in harmful conduct.
Explanation by Banya. Traditional readings vary.